University of California Press Mothering While Black: Boundaries and Burdens of Middle-Class Parenthood

Mothering While Black examines the complex lives of the African American middle class—in particular, black mothers and the strategies they use to raise their children to maintain class status while simultaneously defining and protecting their children’s “authentically black” identities. Sociologist Dawn Marie Dow shows how the frameworks typically used to research middle-class families focus on white mothers’ experiences, inadequately capturing the experiences of African American middle- and upper-middle-class mothers. These limitations become apparent when Dow considers how these mothers apply different parenting strategies for black boys and for black girls, and how they navigate different expectations about breadwinning and childrearing from the African American community. At the intersection of race, ethnicity, gender, work, family, and culture,  Mothering While Black sheds light on the exclusion of African American middle-class mothers from the dominant cultural experience of middle-class motherhood. In doing so, it reveals the painful truth of the decisions that black mothers must make to ensure the safety, well-being, and future prospects of their children. Review "This important research demands a reconceptualization of how we study family and work more broadly. Dow has successfully demonstrated how external forces related to the intersectionality of gender, race, and class must be considered when explaining internal family decisions about parenting strategies and work."-- "American Journal of Sociology" "The text is illustrative, rooted in narratives from her sample, and reflexive in the organization and development of these narratives. Taken together, the author successfully intervenes in scholarship about mothering and work-family experiences, adding to established perspectives the experience of middle-class African American women."-- "Affilia: Journal of Women and Social Work" "Dow is extremely adept at patiently walking the reader through the intricacies of her claims and in substantiating her research methodology. This is particularly useful for students and lay people unfamiliar with theory and methods. She also makes it easy for black women and families to find themselves within her typology and the market-family matrix . . . [that] will help establish Dow as a solid figure in the area of race, gender, and family studies."-- "Gender and Society" From the Inside Flap &;Beautifully written, Mothering While Black reveals the advantages, worries, and frustrations of middle-class African American mothers as they raise their children. This insightful book illuminates mothers&; experiences around race and the intertwining of race and class in an unusually powerful fashion. Highly recommended!&;&;Annette Lareau, author of Unequal Childhoods &;Is your babysitter afraid of your black neighbors? Does a white parent fear your black baby is toddling over to hit, instead of hug, another baby? In the wake of Trayvon Martin&;s death, is your teenage boy safe walking to his middle-class home? In this illuminating in-depth study of sixty African-American middle-class mothers, Dawn Dow reveals the unspoken work they do to help their children navigate a racialized world. Some try to keep the door open to poorer blacks, while others fear doing so. Other mothers try to help their children feel affirmed as biracial children in a racially divided world. As one mother told Dow wearily, &;We eat racism for breakfast.&; Even the normalcy of being a working mother with a child-tending grandparent (as part of a &;normal&; work-family balance)&;all this is part of mothering while black. Hugely important, insightful, and wise, this is a book for every parent&;and child.&;&;Arlie Russell Hochschild, author of The Second Shift and Strangers in Their Own Land &;A much-needed book that challenges conventional understandings of middle-class motherhood. Dow provides a window into the world of middle-class bla